A final peek inside: The M...in BDSM and closing arguments...

The end is nigh....well, it's M actually

M in BDSM, relates to the lovely S and refers to Masochism as in sadomasochism.

Masochism is the need or want to receive pain/humiliation for sexual gratification, pleasure etc; a masochist willingly receives and responds to the pain a sadist needs/wants to give.

Pretty heavy stuff, yeah?

Think about it in a visceral way, using something you like to do or have done; there really isn't much difference in the end result: happiness, pleasure, fulfillment.

BDSM is a really dense topic and I only barely scratched the surface of it, wanting merely to introduce the topic to the less inclined and encourage a more open thinking of this Taboo topic.

Personally, when I first heard about it I though that everyone who did it wore leather all the time, then when I started wearing spiked collars and people asked me and whatever friend I was with (female friend mind you) if we shared the 'lix' (spankings) I thought that plus leather; only in recent times I understood (somewhat) what it really entails and is mainly about: 

I think the term I hear is 'alternative lifestyle' ? Mmmmm, I'd say a different way of doing normal.

You don't have to lead a strictly Vanilla (a term used to mean plain in BDSM) life; varying studies alone can add flavours to your mind otherwise missed.

Take a small scoop of pistachio for a change and it may lead you to discovering what the world has to offer...